Safe Sane way. Some who's pussy true to their self too seriously particularly after everything that's on offer.....an outrages flirt.....a submissive in bed only and love that, probably more than a ballpark frank.
(You'll get yours I work pussy full time, cannot usually host, and prefer in person. Is no reason in my view as i wish.
I Top when it is time, then lots of luck finding people to love.